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Can My Relationships Survive My Veganism? with Melanie Joy, PhD: PYP 351

Melanie Joy, PhD is a social psychologist, vegan activist, political strategist vs all the oppressive “archys” out there, organizational consultant, and relationship coach. She joins the podcast to talk about her book Beyond Beliefs – essentially a merging of the political and relational.

How can we advocate for human health, environmental sanity, and ethical treatment of animals without wrecking our relationships with family members, friends, partners, and coworkers?

Do we have to surround ourselves only with vegans to have a good time? (Spoiler: see “in-fighting” to figure out that answer to that one.)

When our veganism leads to relational conflict, Joy asserts, it's not because of the veganism. It's actually a lack of relational literacy, a much more fundamental and global issue. And when we gain and practice relational literacy, the specifics of our conflicts can become fuel for growth and depth in those relationships, rather than ticking bombs that could go off at any moment.

In our conversation, she offers perspective, hope, and tools and strategies for sustainable vegan advocacy and living.

Enjoy, add your voice to the conversation via the comment box below, and please share – that's how we spread our message and spread our roots.

Links

Beyond Carnism website

Beyond Beliefs

Powerarchy: Understanding the Psychology of Oppression for Social Transformation

Why We Love Dogs, Wear Cows, and Eat Pigs: An Introduction to Carnism

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Music

The Plant Yourself Podcast theme music, “Dance of Peace (Sabali Don),” is generously provided by Will Ridenour, a kora player from North Carolina who has trained with top Senegalese musicians.

It can be found on his first CD, titled Will Ridenour.

You can learn about Will, listen to more tracks, and buy music on his website, WillRidenour.com.

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Thanks to Plant Yourself podcast patrons – Kim Harrison – Lynn McLellan – Brittany Porter – Dominic Marro – Barbara Whitney – Tammy Black – Amy Good – Amanda Hatherly – Mary Jane Wheeler – Ellen Kennelly – Melissa Cobb – Rachel Behrens – Tina Scharf – Tina Ahern – Jen Vilkinofsky – David Byczek – Michele X – Elspeth Feldman – Leah Stolar – Allan Kristensen – Colleen Peck – Michele Landry – Jozina – Sara Durkacs – Kelly Cameron – Janet Selby – Claire Adams – Tom Fronczak – Jeannette Benham – Gila Lacerte – David Donohue – Blair Seibert – Doron Avizov – Gio and Carolyn Argentati – Jodi Friesner – Mischa Rosen – Michael Worobiec – AvIvA Lael – Alicia Lemus – Val Linnemann – Nick Harper – Bandana Chawla – Molly Levine – The Inscrutable Harry R – Susan Laverty the Panda Vegan – Craig Covic – Adam Scharf – Karen Bury – Heather Morgan – Nigel Davies – Marian Blum – Teresa Kopel – Julian Watkins – Brid O'Connell – Shannon Herschman – Linda Ayotte – Holm Hedegaard – Isa Tousignant – Connie Haneline – Erin Greer – Alicia Davis – Heather O'Connor – Carollynne Jensen – Sheri Orlekoski of Plant Powered for Health – Karen Smith – Scott Mirani – Karen and Joe Crabtree – Kirby Burton – Theresa Carrell – Kevin Macaulay – Elizabeth Rothschild – Ann Jesse – Sheryl Dwyer – Jenny Hazelton – Peter W Evans – Dennis Bird – Darby Kelly – Lori Fanney – Linnea Lundquist – Emily Iaconelli – Levi Wallach – Rosamonde McAtee – Dan Pokorney – Stephen Leinin – Patty DeMartino – Mike and Donna Kartz – Deanne Bishop – Bilberry Elf – Marjorie Lewis – Tricia Adams – Nancy Sheldon – Lindsey Bashore – Gunn Marit Hagen – Tracey Gulledge – Lara Hedin – Meg from Mamasezz – Stacey Stokes – Ben Savage – Michael K – David Hughes -Coni Rodgers – Claire England – Sally Robertson – Parham Ganchi – Amy Dailey – Brian Tourville – Mark Jeffrey Johnson – Josie Dempsey – Caryn Schmitt – Pamela Hayden – Emily Perryman – Allison Corbett – Richard Stone – Lauren Vaught of Edible Musings – Erin Hastey – Sean Owens – Sagar Naik – Erika Piedra – Danielle Roberts – Michael Leuchten – Sarah Johnson – Katharine Floyd – Meryl Fury – for your generous support of the podcast.

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3 comments on “Can My Relationships Survive My Veganism? with Melanie Joy, PhD: PYP 351

  1. Kirsten says:

    Loved it!! Have her again!!! Great interview!!!

  2. Kathryn Dillon says:

    Loved her book and loved this podcast. Great interview! Hope she comes back to pick up where she left off. 🙂

    1. Howard says:

      Thanks for the kind words, Kathryn! I do want to continue the conversation with her!

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