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Replacing Fear with Love, Losing 200 Pounds, and Finding Purpose with Russ L’Hommedieu: PYP 229

When we make a big change in our lives, it's easy to forget who we were and how we thought before that change. Russ L'Hommedieu doesn't have that problem – he's got a public video record of his old ways of being and thinking: a 2 minute compilation video of his standup routine about the travails of obesity and dieting. (Check it out below.)

After selling his physical therapy practice, Russ began going to comedy open mics, and achieved some success with his “fat guy bemoaning his attempts at weight loss” routine. He's funny, no question, but I can't help but be saddened at the self-defeating attitude of the man in the video.

Then, 15 years ago, he became an accidental vegan and his weight loss accelerated and – for the first time ever – wasn't reversed.

Now Russ is an accomplished weight loss (and “life gain”) coach, and has started an innovative food delivery service, Harvest Food Box, to support his clients and others in the tri-state region of New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut.

In this episode, we talked some about Russ's fascinating past, his journey to health, his entrepreneurial venues, and his current work. But most of our conversation highlights Russ' wisdom around the mental aspects of big change. We covered:

  • that uncomfortable moment when you break the doctor's scale
  • going through PT school without ever learning about nutrition or wholistic health
  • getting bullied in elementary school
  • always gaining or losing weight (totaling 500 pounds)
  • starving himself for the entire summer before entering high school
  • the importance of confronting an uncomfortable question: “How did I get to be so heavy?”
  • changing one's “primary schema” – belief system around food
  • “I look at animal products and don't see food anymore”
  • the human binary code: love and fear
  • “I didn't care about being healthy; I just didn't want a 62 inch waist anymore”
  • “how dare he be so fat in public”
  • Barbara Rolls and the concept of volumetrics
  • fill the plate with vegetables so the meat and dairy fall off
  • reading The China Study: “Are you fricking kidding me? We knew this?”
  • raising his consciousness after going vegan: no coincidence that compassion and health can go hand in hand
  • Melanie Joy and the Golden Retriever meatballs
  • the importance of commitment and purpose – vs sliding back to easy defaults when things get tough
  • sweets: food or flavoring?
  • the problem with cheat days
  • “you don't have to finish everything on your plate”
  • the significance of language
  • trying to get onto a Legoland ride: “Dude, seriously?”
  • receiving an M-1 rifle at age 8
  • his father's gun rule: “if you kill it, you have to eat it”
  • becoming a kayaker for his son – and then for himself
  • circumnavigating Long Island and New York City in a kayak in 8 and a half days
  • creating a plant-based business that others can duplicate
  • and much more…

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Links

HarvestFoodBox.com

Volumetrics, by Barbara Rolls, PhD

The China Study, by T. Colin Campbell, PhD

Prevent and Reverse Heart Disease, by Caldwell Esselstyn, MD

SuperSize Me, by Morgan Spurlock

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Dr Howie Jacobson

This podcast is a labor of love and a way to give back to the world that has given me so much. That's why there aren't any sponsors (except me :).

My day job is helping leaders and their teams master their mindsets to remove all obstacles to heart-centered high performance.

Here are three gigs that I do:

1. Executive and Senior Leadership Mentoring and Facilitation

I work with high performing executive teams in organizations — and executive teams that need to become high  performing. My focus is mindset mastery, because it’s our mindsets that either support high performance or get in the way.

At this level, everyone’s got the skills and experience to excel and contribute at the highest level. What holds people back is mindset stuff: specifically the triggers that get them out of creative engagement and into fight-or-flight defensiveness.

My practice is all about teaching people to respond differently to those triggers by updating old maps — essentially removing the glitches that the triggers grab onto.

2. Executive Coaching: Quick Wins for High Performance

I work with individual executives and leaders, one on one. The program is called Quick Wins for High Performance, and what we do is, we work strategically on one or two areas that are holding you back and keeping you from performing at your best.

We reverse engineer the presenting problems — too much work and not enough time, underperforming employees and teams, maddening organizational inefficiencies, etc — and identify and rewire the suboptimal mindsets that are behind those problems.

The work is all about updating your mental maps so your actions and responses are always appropriate, proportionate, and strategic.

3. High Stakes Conversations for Fast Growing Small Business Teams

I help small business teams have high stakes conversations with skill, humor, and grace. When people feel safe, they can do their best, most creative, most collaborative work.

So that's what I do. If you'd like any of those results, drop me a line and tell me about yourself.

You CAN Change Other People!

Well, that's what Peter Bregman and I claim in our provocative book of that title.

What we really mean is, you can bring out the best in the people around you. If you think you're powerless to help people change, it's because you've been going about it the wrong way.

Discover our straightforward, replicable process here: You Can Change Other People.

 

Music

The Plant Yourself Podcast theme music, “Dance of Peace (Sabali Don),” is generously provided by Will Ridenour, a kora player from North Carolina who has trained with top Senegalese musicians.

It can be found on his first CD, titled Will Ridenour.

You can learn about Will, listen to more tracks, and buy music on his website, WillRidenour.com.

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